AT YOUR OWN PACE
A little more room to be yourself.
Take a break, choose your rhythm, or find a small way to say hello. These tools are free.
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Pausing removes you from new introductions and discovery. Your existing mutual matches and conversations stay. Your pause is private.
Edit your introduction preferencesA small hello is enough.
Choose a starter, copy it, and make it sound like you. Nothing is sent automatically.
A plan with room to say no.
Soft Invites are for mutual matches with an accepted conversation. Either person can change their mind. No explanation required.
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